The enemy of my enemy is my friend ...loyalty TO is worth more than SUPERFICIAL
One time I was watching one of my favorite shows the office only show one of the main characters Dwight Schrute says the enemy of my enemy is my friend and he got me to thinking sometimes in life the enemy of our enemy is ourselves
We can meet people and really invest in them, but before we Venture out and into investing in others, we forget to think about ourselves so then we wound up with a moment that really puts us in a place of having a full circle It could be a point in our lives, where we feel fully destroyed by the relationship that we put first that friend that we put on a pedestal and held up to higher expectations on that relationship that we put before Ourselves, not knowing that it was an opportunity for us to learn and grow, and for the person that was in our lives at that moment to learn and grow as well
The goal in that moment is for us to take this opportunity to grow and understand that whatever this person did to harm us was not done to us, but it was done for us to grow equal equally the person that hurt us and ourselves because we hurt ourselves by allowing ourselves to trust someone when we saw Signs
Now there are moments where we don’t see the warning signs maybe we don’t understand it and that’s why these full circle moments come around the keep repeating until you realize the pattern and then you can Break the cycle
Here’s the thing, though the person that you’re in a cycle with repeats itself or in a different form being a narcissist abuser manipulator then you have to look at that pattern and realize you have to do the healing do the work And grow
However, growing does not look like getting revenge on this person. It doesn’t look like calling them out or letting them know that they have the best of you see I went through a moment like that last year where I felt like I needed to prove who I was and who identity was because I know that in this particular situation, I have to legally prove my innocence, but what I didn’t have to do is go out my way because everything will speak The best revenge is having a better life and moving on without talking about that person without giving them power
A great conversation happened this weekend among many, but this conversation talked about power and enemy, and it was like reoccurring theme with the videos. It was like I knew I was in alignment fully because God kept sending me these messages, but not only did God send me the message because God always send me the message or send us the message. It was the first time where I was fully in alignment to see that this is the beginning of a new chapter that for a while in a transition and that it’s closing out old cycles and old chapters to get this new chapter. I had to start over in some ways from where I was in 2024 and I had to start over some ways and where I was in 2025 and even start over from areas of my childhood, but I realize that this moment was very much well deserved and worth it
This was a moment where I realized the voices of negativity were not my own. They were orchestrated by family members mothers that mothers aunt’s uncles friends that I took on even father and stepfather sisters and brothers, who made me feel like I was I wasn’t enough
Or the exes that I had that caught me in a week time where I was feeding into the voices, but I knew that there was power and positivity and love and understanding at this time I knew that the worst thing I could do was give someone else power over me but unk Annoyingly looking for my power. I found it, and I gave it to another one.
Do these conversations I realize I can’t let my power just go. I work too hard to get here. The power that I gave up started to put me in a weird place because I started to see things that I didn’t need to see that I wouldn’t have seen had I’ve been in the right mindset, even though I’m full of joy, love and light I still have a balance, but sometimes in those balance moments, there is a justice, a serene truth that is fierce and strong and boisterous. And it echoes loudly to get the corrections, a serene truth that comes from my ancestors from my history from my traumas that tells me that you have to speak for yourself that you have to speak for the trees that you have to speak for your goals and your ambition
So I took time to really think and I realize I’m in the process of Learning and unknown things are about to happen. I’m also unlearning things that I thought I knew and I’m also incorporating things that I’ve learned, but actually utilizing them and it was because I had to realize that some of my enemies were wasting time. Some of my enemies were allowing someone else to come in and say something that didn’t need me to give any energy to. I had to learn that just because someone feels a type of way it is not my problem because I don’t have to be like by Everyone
I passed that back. I was able to relax cross my legs, see myself for who I really am take some time to really elevate my perspective and I got out. I did some things that I wouldn’t have done and I had fun last week and I had fun this weekend really realizing who I am and what I’m working towards is a process That just because I don’t have it the day or the month of the year that somebody else thinks I should have it doesn’t mean it’s not coming because my success comes when it’s supposed to come that when somebody else feels
You can’t just give up because something is hard, but you can’t just rush something because you want it now there is a medium ground of understanding that something can be hard and take a lot of time, but the urgency of you constantly be consistent in. It is another truth there are two truths that can be true at the same time. A.k.a. two things can be true at the same time you need to be urgent and learning and putting in the effort, but you need to be consistent as well and understand that it takes time and it’s not going to be overnight and it’s not going to be a week or a day, but you still need to put in the effort
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